Friday 23 February 2024

How to Manage Social Anxiety

Whether it’s through work relationships, our personal lives or daily tasks, social interactions are an integral part of our daily lives. However, for anyone suffering from social anxiety, these interactions can often seem overwhelming and distressing. 

Social anxiety, characterised by a persistent fear of being in social situations, can significantly impact both our personal and professional lives, which can lead to mental health issues. However, there are effective strategies and techniques for managing social anxiety and promoting improved overall wellbeing.

Understanding social anxiety

Before practising any recommended techniques, it’s important to understand the nature and causes of social anxiety. Research suggests that social anxiety disorder arises from a combination of genetic, environmental and psychological factors. Additionally, childhood experiences, such as a history of bullying or social rejection, can also contribute to the development of social anxiety.

A study published by the National Library of Medicine, found that “social fears can also interfere with a broad range of everyday activities, such as visiting shops, buying clothes, having a haircut and using the telephone".

Emotional and behavioural symptoms

Symptoms you might experience if you suffer from social anxiety include:
  • Fear of being judged in social situations
  • Afraid of doing something embarrassing 
  • A strong dislike of talking to strangers
  • Fear that people will be aware of your anxiety
  • Anxiety when anticipating a social event
  • Over analysing your behaviour following a social situation
  • Thinking of the worst possible outcome from a negative experience 

Physical symptoms
  • Blushing
  • Fast heartbeat
  • Shaking
  • Sweating
  • Upset stomach or nausea
  • Struggling to catch your breath
  • Dizziness 
  • Mind going blank


Managing social anxiety

1. Seek professional help
When dealing with social anxiety, it’s important to seek help from professional mental health practitioners. Therapies such as cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) and exposure therapy have demonstrated effectiveness in reducing social anxiety symptoms. CBT can help to identify and challenge negative thought patterns, replacing them with more realistic and positive perspectives.

2. Practice relaxation techniques
Relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing exercises, muscle relaxation and mindfulness meditation, can be helpful in managing social anxiety. These techniques help us to relax, reduce physical symptoms of anxiety and allow for greater self-awareness. Regular practice of relaxation techniques can help us to remain calm and composed when faced with anxiety-provoking situations.

3. Build a support network
Developing a strong support network is extremely helpful for managing social anxiety. Sharing our thoughts and experiences with friends, family or support groups can provide a sense of comfort and understanding. Also, participating in social activities with friends and family can gradually build confidence and reduce anxiety. Gaining a sense of belonging within a community can be a powerful tool in managing social anxiety.

4. Challenge negative thoughts
Negative and self-critical thoughts often fuel social anxiety. Engaging in cognitive restructuring and challenging these thoughts can be transformative. By questioning the validity of negative beliefs and replacing them with more positive and realistic ones, we can rewire our minds and develop a healthier perspective of ourselves and our social interactions.

5. Gradual exposure
It may seem surprising, but avoiding situations where we are likely to feel anxious can actually perpetuate social anxiety. Therefore, it’s essential to gradually expose ourselves to social situations that we fear. Starting with less intimidating situations and slowly progressing to more challenging ones can help build confidence and overcome fears. This desensitisation process can be really empowering and help support long-term management of social anxiety.


Social anxiety can have a significant impact on mental wellbeing by hindering social interactions and undermining self-confidence. However, armed with these effective strategies and techniques, we can learn to manage social anxiety and reclaim control over our lives. 

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