Tap into mindfulness
In short, mindfulness is taking in each moment. This means paying attention to how you feel, and what is happening in the here and now. Sometimes we can be too concerned with tasks we need to get done, and with worries about the future. Mindfulness encourages you to focus on touch, sights, sounds, smells and emotions that you are experiencing in the moment.If you’re feeling anxious, stressed or even lonely, being aware of the way you feel can help you identify why you feel a certain way in that moment. Tackling each feeling as it arises can also stop you becoming overwhelmed by ever increasing waves of emotions. The more you practise mindfulness, the more you’re likely to become aware of specific situations that make you feel a certain way. Mindfulness can also help to diffuse stress or anxiety by focusing your attention on things you can see, hear, touch, smell or feel. In addition to acknowledging feelings as they happen, make time each day to practise mindfulness by:
Digesting what has happened during the day and writing any thoughts and feelings in a mindfulness diary. Putting thoughts on paper, which can help minimise concerns that might seem more worrying in your mind.
Finding somewhere to relax and take deep breaths, focusing on each breath in, and out.
Changing your routine – going for a walk during a work break and noticing the things you see and hear.
Acknowledging recurring feelings and noting what it is you associate with these feelings. Over time, you will come to realise that the worrying thought, or fear is just that, a thought.
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Make time to relax
You might think it’s easier said than done, but making time to relax is important for your mental health. The mental health charity Mind recommends different ways in which you can relax to improve mental health:- Avoid technology – turn off your mobile phone and TV and enjoy the silence. Make a point of avoiding all social media for an entire evening and use that time to do something else you enjoy.
- Relax among nature – Research shows that being around nature is beneficial for our mental health. This includes not only local parks and countryside, but also having indoor plants and enjoying the trees dotted among the city landscapes. Perhaps surprisingly, studies have revealed that even watching TV programmes about nature can have a positive impact on your wellbeing.
- Breathing exercises – deep breathing can help to reduce stress by increasing the amount of oxygen that enters your body. This can then reduce your blood pressure and create a feeling of calm as you breathe in and out, relaxing your entire body.
- Exercise – grab your trainers and get your blood pumping. Exercise can actually be a great way to relax as it releases all those feel-good endorphins. These hormones promote a positive mood, which can make you feel more relaxed. You can exercise at home, among nature, or join your local gym. Some great exercises for relaxation include yoga, Pilates and swimming.
Get a good night's sleep
Sleep and mental health are intrinsically linked. Many kinds of mental health issues can be associated with lack of sleep, including anxiety, depression, and stress. Fortunately, there are things you can do to improve your sleep and therefore your mental health:- Avoid alcohol and caffeine before bed – drinking caffeine-laden drinks, or alcoholic drinks can disrupt your sleep. Alcohol is a depressant that may make you feel relaxed initially but can interfere with the stages of sleep later in the night. You could find yourself going in and out of sleep, experiencing headaches from dehydration, and ultimately, not getting a good night’s sleep at all. Caffeine is a stimulant and can stop you from falling asleep easily in addition to interfering with the later stages of your sleep cycle.
- Make it comfortable – Make sure you have a comfortable bed, mattress and bedding so you aren’t agitated during sleep.
- Make it calm – Create a calming sleeping environment without stimulating gadgets or electronics and allow your mind to wind down at least an hour before bedtime.