Friday, 7 May 2021

Socialising after lockdown with social anxiety

The past year has been challenging for many of us. Not being able to travel freely, restricted in how we spend our free time, not spending time with the people we want to. One of the main things that has changed significantly for all of us, is our social life. 

Although this element can be challenging in many ways, there are many people who will not be looking forward to our social lives getting back on track.

Social anxiety disorder is one of the most common anxiety disorders in the UK, affecting as much as 12% of the population. 

Living with social anxiety can impact different areas of our lives, one of these being our social relationships. It can be especially challenging when we want to be able to hang out with our friends, but our anxiety gets in the way.

Here at First Psychology, we meet individuals every day who are struggling with this, but are determined to find a way to manage their anxiety and take part in the social activities they want to.

If this sounds like you, here are some helpful ways to start understanding and managing your own social anxiety, that you might want to try before your next social event.

Remember to go slow

The more pressure we put on ourselves, the harder it will be to feel relaxed in any social interaction. If you don’t feel ready to socialise, that’s ok. Instead, use the time to do things that you enjoy. Just because socialising in groups is now more of an option, does not mean there is any need to rush. It is your decision to make.

Write it down

Take some time to notice, and jot down the thoughts that are coming up for you when you imagine stepping into a social situation. Once you’ve done this, ask yourself the following questions:

  • Is there any evidence that contradicts this thought? 
  • What are the costs and benefits of thinking in this way?
  • Is there another way of looking at this this situation?
Try to answer these as honestly as possible then notice how you feel.

Visualise and embody your social self

Sometimes it is the negative way in which we imagine ourselves in a social situation that can put us off, even if that image is unrealistic. A more helpful way to approach social anxiety, is to visualise ourselves in a positive way.

  1. Ask yourself- how do I want to appear in this social situation? There may be certain words that can describe this (e.g. confident, focused), or perhaps a drawing captures it more accurately (e.g. posture, facial expressions).
  2. Now that you have this positive image in your mind, think about what you can do to make it more of a reality. While you do this, remember to be kind to yourself, focusing on self-motivation and encouragement, rather than criticising or making unhelpful demands of yourself.

For more information about social anxiety and some techniques to help manage it, sign up to our webinar 'Understanding and Managing Social Anxiety' taking place on Friday 14 May 2021. 

Elspeth Quinn works as an Applied Psychology Practitioner at First Psychology Edinburgh. She will be presenting the webinar 'Understanding and Managing Social Anxiety'

Thursday, 6 May 2021

Overcoming failure and moving on

There’s no doubt that failure can be a hard pill to swallow, but it can also teach us important lessons that spur us on to do bigger and better things.

Often, we create our own expectations and set ourselves unrealistic goals which in turn can lead to failure and disappointment. If we experience failure regularly, it can play havoc with our self-worth, leaving us anxious, stressed and lacking in confidence. So, what can we do to overcome failure and move on with a positive attitude?

Accept your feelings

If you fail at something that was particularly important to you, such as getting that dream job or losing at a competitive sport, the chances are it’s going to sting a little, especially when you didn’t see it coming. But that’s okay and it’s natural to feel disappointed. However, if you dwell for too long, your initial feelings can turn into more destructive emotions such as anger, resentment, and depression. You might start to believe that you’re a complete failure as you become more and more critical of yourself. Acknowledge how you feel, but then look at the reasons why you might have failed and tell yourself that you can learn from the experience and move on.

How to learn from failure

Although it might be painful initially, keep reminding yourself that one failure doesn’t mean you will fail every time. This is merely a temporary setback that will ultimately help you improve. Ask yourself the following questions:

  • What caused me to fail? Wherever possible, ask for feedback. For example, if you didn’t get the job, ask why. It might just be that you didn’t have as much experience as the next interviewee, but this doesn’t reflect badly on you personally.
  • How can I avoid the same mistakes next time? What can I do differently?
  • Have I set myself an unrealistic goal or is this something I can achieve in the future with more practice/experience?

As you start to answer these questions, you’ll start to think more positively with a constructive mindset. It might even spark a new idea or challenge that could be even more exciting and within your grasp. 

Scientific American looked at a study carried out by Professor Wang and his colleagues on the dynamics of failure across science, startups and security.  Wang said: “You have to figure out what worked and what didn’t, and then focus on what needs to be improved instead of thrashing around and changing everything.” He believes that "Every winner begins as a loser".  What is clear from the study is that it not only takes persistence to become a winner, you have to learn from each previous failure along the way too. Simply trying and trying again is not the answer for success unless you do this. 

Don’t set yourself impossible goals

Sometimes we feel as though anything is possible and we can take on the world but remember to be realistic about your goals. Recognise your limitations to avoid setting yourself up for a fall. Maybe you are trying to run before you can walk so make sure you have a practical plan in place to help achieve your ambitions. By raising the bar too high and too quickly, you risk feeling worthless if you fail and haven’t prepared for it.

Expect the worst

By expecting the worst, this doesn’t mean we can’t hope for the best. But a simple exercise of imagining the worst outcome can mean that we have already dealt with failure before it happens. This also gives you the opportunity to have a back-up plan in place which will give you something positive to focus on should you fail.

Remind yourself of your successes

Finally, keep on reminding yourself of all the times you didn’t fail. This will stir up the positive emotions and feelings you had in previous times that made you feel great about yourself.

Tuesday, 20 April 2021

Becoming skilled in the art of trust

Whether you’ve been cheated on by a previous partner, someone has lied to you, or a close friend has let you down with something that was really important to you, placing your trust in a person can be nerve-raking and nigh on impossible for some.

Much of the time the reason we are scared to trust people is because of past experiences and remembering the hurt that it caused us at the time. These old wounds can have an impact on our mental health as they can bring insecurities to the surface and cause unnecessary worry. So, it’s important to not only deal with any underlying issues but to move on and not let it taint future expectations. After all, trust is a conscious choice that we make.

When we place our trust in a person, there will always be an element of risk involved knowing that we could get hurt again, however, we could also reap immense rewards.

Ways to learn to trust

To master the art of trust, we must first do some work on ourselves. One of the best ways to do this is to look back at past experiences, no matter how painful they may seem. Make a list of all the times you have trusted someone and been let down. How did this make you feel at the time, how did it affect your mental wellbeing, and what did you learn from the experience?

If this is something you’ve never done before, you might be surprised at all the positives that arose from a bad experience which you hadn’t acknowledged at the time. For example, you might have had your heart broken by a past partner but then went on to meet someone who was much more suited to you and made you really happy. By recognising the positives, it makes it easier to accept that sometimes we have to take risks and experience some form of emotional hurt in order to learn from it.

Try to remember that every situation and every person is different. What you might have experienced at a previous time in your life, probably won’t result in the same outcome every time. Also, take time to reflect on the person that broke your trust rather than yourself. Perhaps they were dealing with their own personal issues that you weren’t aware of, or maybe their previous experiences affected how they treat others. Try not to take things too personally or let them make you doubt yourself.

When we place our trust in people, there is an element of allowing ourselves to be vulnerable. Vulnerability isn’t always a bad thing even though we are often scared that we won’t be in total control. A simple way of opening up to our vulnerability is by speaking about how we feel. Try explaining to the person in question about your fears or concerns. Sometimes, people don’t realise that they have broken our trust and how it has affected us, so by talking to them, it could prevent future upset. 

And if you are prone to feeling guilty about things, you may be pleased to learn that a study published by the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, concluded that guilt-prone individuals are more likely to be trustworthy because they are “sensitive to what the other person anticipates, and so feel responsible to meet the other person’s expectations.” It’s important to remember that not everyone will be as “guilt-prone” as ourselves though.

It can take time to learn to trust, but the more you practise it and focus on the positive results rather than the negatives, you’ll soon start to see the benefits.

Wednesday, 17 March 2021

Handling rejection and keeping a positive mindset

Throughout our lives, it’s likely we’ll all experience rejection in one form or another, and on many occasions. Whether it’s rejection from your parents, a friend, partner or even a potential employer, it can come as a heavy blow to our mental wellbeing and feel extremely painful. A recent study looked at the effects of rejection on social behaviour of women and how “humans have a strong need to belong and connect to others”. The results showed that the intensity of the rejection was integral to how the person coped following the experience.

What are the effects of rejection?

Rejection can start from a young age, for example, when you’re a child and perhaps your parents have been to busy to play. Or maybe you’ve tried to make friends at school and weren’t accepted into the group. Ultimately, whatever the situation, rejection doesn’t feel great and can be damaging to our self-esteem. It can make us feel as though we’re not good enough, accepted or even loved. However, if we experience rejection on a regular basis, it can have a much greater impact on our mental health if we don’t find a way of dealing with it. These effects might include:

  • Stress and anxiety
  • Depression
  • Low self-esteem
  • Anger and aggression
  • Feelings of loneliness
  • Ways to overcome rejection

How we respond to rejection is really important as it can help us maintain a positive mindset and take care of our mental wellbeing. We’ve selected just a few techniques that you can practise to help you deal more effectively with rejection.

Feel your emotions

Understandably, some types of rejection can hit us hard and make us feel sad or angry. This is a natural response and it’s okay to allow yourself to feel those emotions. But what we must try to do once we’ve allowed ourselves to express our emotions, is to let them go and move on.

Change your way of thinking

Following on from the above point, we can choose how we react to rejection. How we choose to react can determine how long we suffer from the pain of rejection. Rather than trying to second guess why we’ve been rejected and criticising ourselves, we can learn from the experience and use it to grow and develop.

Try not to feel victimised

One of the most damaging things we can do to our mental health is to feel victimised. This is an extremely negative mindset that can lead to even more negative emotions. By showing ourselves compassion and respect, we are able to rise above those moments when we feel the urge to brood and wallow in negative thoughts.

Learn to love yourself

One of the best ways to deal with any kind of rejection is by learning to love yourself. When we are kind and empathetic to ourselves, over time, our self-esteem grows, making it easier to accept rejection from others.

Friday, 5 March 2021

Ten ways to spring clean your mind

The long, cold, dark nights of winter can leave us feeling drained, tired and, for some, depressed. Studies have shown that when we're less exposed to daylight, our levels of serotonin drop, which can affect our mood and trigger symptoms of depression. The more daylight we are exposed to, the more serotonin we produce. So, it’s not surprising that the moment we start to see signs of spring, we instantly begin to feel in a better mood, with many of us getting the urge to spring clean our homes.

But springtime is also a great time to focus on our mental and emotional wellbeing, and reduce feelings of anxiety, stress, or general melancholy. Find out how in our tips for spring cleaning your mind, below.

Eat right

A healthy diet packed with seasonal fruit and vegetables, and plenty of water, can work wonders not just for our physical health but also out mental health. A healthy diet can help reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety.

Get outside

Soak up all that wonderful vitamin D which can regulate your mood and help fight depression. Replace a short trip in the car with a short walk, park your car further away from the shops, or get off the bus early to maximise the benefits. 

Get into good sleeping habits

Too much or too little sleep can play havoc with our energy levels and mental wellbeing, so try and get into a routine of early nights and early mornings having between seven and nine hours’ sleep a night.

Deal with negative thoughts

Whether it’s a recent argument with a friend or work anxiety that’s playing on your mind, a good way to free your mind of worry is to write down anything that’s bothering you and make a list of possible solutions. Try to understand if it’s something you can let go or if you need to take action. It might seem daunting at first but once you start to tackle anything that’s taking up head space, you’ll feel a huge weight lifted.

Forgive yourself

Sometimes we can hurt ourselves as much as others do, so try to be kind to yourself and forgive yourself for any past mistakes. Perhaps try repeating positive, daily affirmations such as “I am not perfect, but I am a good person”, or “I am in charge of my own happiness and today I’m going to have a good day”.

Get fit

Exercising will not only improve your physical health, it’s also great for your mental health as it releases all those lovely endorphins (feel good chemicals). If the thought of exerting yourself terrifies you, just start off slowly with a few stretches each day or a short walk and build up gradually. Don't be tempted to take on too much, add one session into your week at a time and make it a habit before you add more. 


Meditation is a great way to clear the mind of negativity and make way for happier and more positive thoughts. You might find it difficult at first to control your thoughts, but you’ll get better with practice and soon start to feel much more in control of what enters your mind.

Practise mindfulness

This is a fabulous way to train and manage your thought processes as it can help you appreciate even the smallest of pleasures that might otherwise go unnoticed. The more we appreciate the positive aspects of our life, the less time we spend dwelling on anything negative.

Be creative

It doesn’t matter if you’re not Mozart or Van Gogh but doing something creative such as art, music, or dancing can be a great stress reliever. You don’t have to share your creative attempts with anyone else, unless of course you’ve found a new skill that you want to flaunt to your friends or family! Creative activities can help slow down your heart rate and focus your thoughts.

Enjoy 'you' time

Take time to do something you love, whether it’s a long relaxing bath with candles and music or reading your favourite book. It’s easy to neglect ourselves especially when we lead busy lives so it’s vital to feel pampered even if it’s only for 15 minutes each day.

Thursday, 18 February 2021

Ways to cope with a new baby

Even the most prepared of parents-to-be can feel overwhelmed when their baby arrives. Coping with the stress and responsibilities associated with becoming a parent can take its toll both mentally and physically. However, you won’t be alone in feeling you aren’t coping, and there are NHS resources available that can help you during this transition from pregnancy to parenthood.

Changing routines

If you are the type of person that relies on strict routines and organisation, it may be a shock to the system when your usual routines are disrupted. Your baby may not respond to a strict schedule and you could find yourself with a baby that requires constant attention. Chores will be left unfinished, emails and texts unanswered, and sleep will be something you can only dream of. This lack of control can cause feelings of powerlessness and frustration, and the lack of sleep could leave you irritable, anxious and depressed.

Altered relationships

Some couples find their relationship suffers once the baby arrives as one party may feel neglected, or money may become a concern. You could find that you each wish to parent differently or that one parent feels inadequate and unable to give the child the attention they believe they need. If you are a single parent with limited support, the stresses associated with caring for a new baby are often multiplied.

Mental wellbeing issues

During pregnancy and childbirth, your body undergoes numerous physical changes. Not all births are straightforward and if you experience injury either during pregnancy or childbirth, you could suffer from post-traumatic stress, which may hinder your initial relationship with the baby. Anxiety about your capacity to parent effectively can cause you to become depressed and leave your self worth in tatters.

Ways to cope when you're struggling with a new baby

Talk to the midwife or health visitor about your concerns

Midwives and health visitors are experienced professionals who will not be surprised by feelings of anxiety and depression. They will be able to allay any concerns you may have about your parenting skills and also point you in the right direction for support groups or individual support.

Don’t feel pressured to invite visitors to the hospital or to your home

When a new baby arrives everyone wants to celebrate, and it can be overwhelming to have a stream of visitors to your bedside or when you first arrive home. It is important to let your boundaries be known and if you want to take time to be alone with your baby then make it clear that you aren’t accepting visitors at this time but will let people know when they can see you and the baby. However, if you feel that you are reluctant to leave the home or see people for an extended period of time, this can be a sign of anxiety and you should speak to your midwife about this to see whether you require some support additional support.

Accept offers of help

If a trusted friend or relative wants to sit with your baby while you catch up on sleep, let them.

Talk about your feelings honestly

Whether you're talking to a health professional or to friends, let them know if you are struggling or if you want advice from experienced parents.

Try to find time to relax

Instead of trying to catch up on housework while your baby sleeps, take time to rest and unwind. Soak in the bath, take a nap, or watch your favourite programme. Do whatever it is that helps you to recharge.

Join a parent and baby group

Socialising with other new parents can help alleviate stress. Joining a parent and baby group is a relaxing, fun way to meet new people and to talk about your new baby and their development. Other parents may have advice about all manner of baby-related things, and the groups provide the opportunity for your baby to make new friends as they grow.

Try baby and parent exercise groups

Exercising at specifically devised baby and parent groups allows you to get some mood-lifting exercise and provides bonding opportunities for you both too. Be it baby yoga, or parent and child swimming sessions, these classes are great for both your newborn and your mental wellbeing.

Spend time outside 

Spending time among nature can boost your mood, so make it part of your daily routine to go for walks. During the summer months you'll get plenty of vitamin D from sunlight, which is not only essential for regulating calcium, but is also fantastic for elevating your mood. Taking a stroll with your new baby is also an excellent way to soothe them off to sleep, giving you the opportunity for some 'me time' when you return home.

Friday, 5 February 2021

Keeping the body and mind in shape during pregnancy

Pregnancy may be a time for great joy, but it is also a time when your body may experience some unexpected changes. These changes can be affect both the mind and body. As your hormone levels change you may experience physical discomfort in addition to emotional difficulties and these may in turn have an impact on your mental wellbeing. Fortunately, there are ways you can prepare for any potential changes and improve your mental and physical health.

Hormonal changes

During pregnancy, you experience a surge in both oestrogen and progesterone. This surge is necessary to assist with the growth of the fetus but can also have the unfortunate effect of changing your mood and causing physical discomfort. Because of these hormonal surges you may experience:

  • Low mood
  • Anxiety
  • Constipation
  • Cramp
  • Hot flushes
  • Feeling faint
  • Tiredness

In addition to hormonal surges, other factors can increase feelings of anxiety and even depression. The thought of becoming a new parent can be daunting, and you may at times doubt your capability to look after a baby. Having a child is a life-changing experience and it is therefore unsurprising that you may be feeling overwhelmed by the responsibilities that come with being a new parent.

Steps you can take to improve your physical and mental health during pregnancy

Eat a healthy diet

The NHS highlights the importance of maintaining a balanced diet during pregnancy. There is no need to 'eat for two' during your pregnancy but increasing your fruit and vegetable intake not only ensures you are getting all the necessary minerals and vitamins but can help to keep your mind in optimum health. Healthy carbohydrates are essential for energy so if you are experiencing tiredness, eating potatoes, wholewheat pasta, and brown rice can help boost your energy levels.

Studies have shown that a healthy diet can aid mental wellbeing, specifically with regards to depression. One study, published last year, which concentrated on the effects of a Mediterranean style diet supplemented with fish oils, revealed that groups of people fed this particular type of diet saw decreased instances of depression.


Low impact exercise not only helps you physically but can also improve mental wellbeing. Exercise can help prepare you for labour and for recovery afterwards. The NHS advises that you should not exert yourself while exercising and that you should be able to hold a conversation comfortably while exercising. In the later stages of pregnancy, swimming is an excellent option as the water will support your weight as it increases.

You should avoid exercising on your back as the weight of your growing pregnancy bump can pump blood back towards the heart which will make you feel faint. Also avoid exercise that involves the risk of being hurt such as squash, rugby, judo, or kickboxing.

Activities that are safe and great for your wellbeing during pregnancy include:

Yoga: According to Harvard Health, "reviews of a wide range of yoga practices suggest they can reduce the impact of exaggerated stress responses and may be helpful for both anxiety and depression."

Yoga concentrates on specific movements and poses, and the transition from one pose to the next. During yoga you are taught to breathe at a regular pace at to be mindful of what your body is doing. Being in the moment and concentrating on specific movements helps you to focus your mind and to relax. 

Do find a good yoga class specifically for pregnant women and, if you are planning to join a regular yoga class, be sure to tell the instructor that you are pregnant before you begin. 

Meditation: Meditation requires you to concentrate and to focus on your breathing. It has been shown that regular meditation can maintain physical and mental wellbeing. For example, some people use meditation as a way to cope with pain as it can help to focus the mind. Being able to manage and even control some aspects of pain is a great stress-reliever. Research has also revealed that meditative movement such as Tai Chi and Quigong can help decrease depression and anxiety.

Tai Chi: Tai Chi is a slow-moving, dance-like practice which can be done alone or in groups. According to Dr Chenchen Wang, associate professor at Tufts University School of Medicine in Massachusetts:

“Tai chi, the Chinese low-impact mind-body exercise, has been practiced for centuries for health and fitness in the East and is currently gaining popularity in the West. It is believed to improve mood and enhance overall psychological wellbeing."

Dr Wang and her associates collated the findings of various studies to determine the positive effects that Tai Chi had on psychological health as well as physical health. The studies suggested that Tai Chi helped to reduce stress, depression, anxiety, and could increase self-esteem.

Speak to your midwifery team or GP if you feel that your mood is lower than normal or lasts for longer than two weeks. Antenatal depression is more common than you may think and can present itself in various ways:

  • Irritability and not wanting to be around other people
  • Less enjoyment of life 
  • Lack of confidence
  • Lack of or no motivation to do things you enjoyed previously
  • Low self-worth
  • Anxiety

Speaking to a health professional can ease your fears and can also help you engage in the right course of treatment for your mental health difficulties. This can take the form of counselling, cognitive behavioural therapy, and prescribed medication. Your health care team can provide ongoing support for you during pregnancy and so it is important to make them aware of any mental health difficulties you are experiencing.

Friday, 22 January 2021

Wellbeing tips for staying happy during winter

Long, dark days and what sometimes seems like endless dreary weather can impact our mental and physical health. Winter is the season when we are more likely to suffer from colds, flu, and SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder), and not to mention piling on the pounds. So why is it that winter leaves so many of us feeling under the weather?

Why winter can affect our mood

During the winter months there is less sunlight and this has for many years been believed to cause an imbalance in the brain, and ultimately affect our mood. SAD can be seriously damaging to our wellbeing as it has similar symptoms to depression, including anxiety, fatigue, sadness, and lack of concentration. The mechanism for this change was not fully understood, but some researchers believe they now know the cause. 

Medical News Today takes a closer look at a study undertaken by researchers at the University of Copenhagen. The researchers measured levels of a protein called SERT in participants and found that those with SAD had more SERT during the winter than the summer.

SERT effectively reduces the activity of serotonin in our brains and as serotonin is known to regulate our mood, researchers believe this reduction in serotonin activity can lead to the depressive symptoms known as SAD.

Ways to stay happy in the winter months

Fortunately, there are many ways we can increase our levels of happiness to keep us smiling and lift our mood in the winter.

Get walking – Bearing in mind the research mentioned above, it is perhaps not surprising that being outside and soaking up the sunlight and vitamin D is one of the best ways to combat SAD and winter blues (a less severe condition). If you find yourself travelling to and from work in the dark, make use of your lunch break, wrap up warm and go for a walk outdoors. 

Sleep well – Try adjusting your sleep pattern by going to bed earlier and rising earlier. It may be tempting to sleep more when it's dark and cold, but too much sleep can leave you feeling sluggish and even more tired. 

Drink water – Water is a wonderful elixir that can remove toxins from the body and improve brain function. Staying hydrated can combat fatigue, reduce headaches, and help balance our moods as well as keep our skin in tip-top condition.

Eat healthy - There’s no denying the cold weather can make us want to reach for sugary and stodgy comfort foods, but this doesn’t mean we have to grab the nearest chocolate bar or survive on takeaways. There are plenty of healthy options that can satisfy your comfort food cravings – try making hearty soups or stews using lots of seasonal vegetables and white meat, which will also boost your immune system.

Embrace the winter – By appreciating the beauty that winter brings and paying close attention to the smaller details, mindfulness can put you in a more positive and happier mood. Go sledging in the snow (with or without the children), notice the frost glistening on the trees, listen to a crackling fire and watch the flames dancing, or sit outside at night around a firepit and watch the stars twinkling in the night sky.

Do a winter workout – If you can’t face dragging yourself out to the gym or the local pool, do a workout in the comfort of your home with yoga, dancing or aerobics. There are plenty of workouts available online but if you prefer, just play your favourite upbeat music and dance!

Avoid colds – By eating plenty of foods that contain vitamin C, such as oranges, broccoli, cherries, chillies, peppers, blackcurrants, and strawberries, you can keep colds and viruses at bay. Although the antioxidants don’t always prevent you from catching a cold, they can reduce the duration and severity.

For more tips on how to cope with SAD, check out our free webinar 'Coping with seasonal affective disorder during lockdown'. 

You can also watch the recordings of our other winter wellbeing webinars here>

Thursday, 7 January 2021

How yoga can relieve anxiety and stress

Many of us at some point in our lives will experience anxiety or stress, and when left untreated, it can lead to more serious issues that can also affect our physical health. Sometimes we might not even realise that we are suffering from these disorders until they take a stronger grip on us. Some of the early warning signs of anxiety and stress include:

  • Restlessness
  • Fatigue
  • Constant worrying
  • Poor concentration
  • Insomnia and sleep disturbance
  • Panic attacks

If you're looking to try something new to help with your symptoms or to complement a talking therapy, yoga may offer some relief according to a recent study by NYU Langone Health / NYU School of Medicine. The study concluded that yoga may be helpful for relieving symptoms of anxiety in some people.

There are several forms of yoga, with some of the more familiar being Vinyasa, Hatha, Iyengar, Bikram and Kundalini. Each of these mind–body practices offers a complementary approach to mental and physical wellbeing, which can help you attain a healthier mind and body.

Yoga comprises various postures, breathing techniques, relaxation and meditation. By undertaking the yoga postures you can improve your body’s core strength and flexibility, and don’t worry that they might be too strenuous as there are different degrees of difficulty so you can choose the most appropriate yoga class for you.

Also known as Pranayama, breathing plays an integral role in yoga and is used to help you control your body and also quieten your mind. Depending on the different levels of yoga, there is a range of breathing techniques which vary in complexity.

More often than not, meditation, or dhyana, accompanies yoga and the breathing techniques to help you relax and focus your mind. Yoga meditation allows you to think more clearly and live in the present moment so that can ground yourself both physically and mentally.

The health benefits of yoga

As well as helping to ease symptoms of stress and anxiety, there are a number of physical health benefits associated with yoga, which include:

  • strengthening of muscles
  • an increase in energy
  • improvement in breathing
  • an increase in flexibility
  • weight loss
  • a healthier heart

All of the above benefits can also reduce the risk of suffering from health conditions such as heart disease, high blood pressure, back pain, arthritis, headaches, depression, anxiety and stress. 

Visit the NHS website for more information about yoga and its health benefits >

Wednesday, 6 January 2021

Day 12 – Twelve drummers drumming – Set your new rhythmn

Now we’re on the twelth day of Christmas, you will hopefully have a better idea of what’s important to you, what you enjoy and where you’d like to be in the future. So it’s time to start setting your new rhythm for the year! 

Monday, 4 January 2021

Day 11 – Eleven pipers piping – The power of music

Music has been shown to have a huge impact on our mood. Music doesn’t have to be conventional music, it could be melodious birdsong, the sound of waves on a beach, classical, pop or anything in between. Put your favourite sounds on today, close your eyes and really listen.

Day 10 – Ten lords are leaping – Set smart goals and leap!

How is your life at present? Are you happy, or is there somewhere you’d rather be? Perhaps you have your eye on a promotion, new career direction, university course, new hobby or skill, or want to move home or country. Work out where you want to be and what steps you need to get there. Then start leaping like a lord! 

Read more about goalsetting here >

Sunday, 3 January 2021

Day 9 – Nine ladies dancing – Exercise for wellbeing

The human body has been designed to move. Research has shown that we can improve our mental and physical health by doing regular exercise. Dancing is a great choice because it often involves social communication and coordination as well as movement, but if dancing isn’t for you, try lots of different types of exercise until you find something that you enjoy. You are more likely to exercise often if you enjoy it, so find your dancing shoes, swimwear, wetsuit or whatever and get moving!

Saturday, 2 January 2021

Day 8 – Eight maids are milking – Use the resources available to you

As the saying goes, a problem shared is a problem halved. Bounce some ideas off of a trusted friend or speak to a family member about how you feel, and don’t be worried about ‘burdening’ people. Often people want to help. Open up and give them a chance. Read these tips on talking to friends and family about mental health problems.

Find out more about talking to friends and family in this article >

Friday, 1 January 2021

Day 7 – Seven swans are swimming – Don’t compare yourself to others

What do you see when you see a swan swimming? You see a serene bird effortlessly gliding along. What you don’t see is the effort going on below the water. Swans are working hard, but we often only see the graceful appearance above the water. Whenever you see someone who appears to achieve a goal effortlessly, remember swans. It takes a whole lot of hard work to achieve that graceful exterior. Try not to judge yourself too harshly against others because we don't know how much paddling is taking place below the surface when others glide by. 

If you feel you tend to jump to conclusions and punish yourself accordingly, cognitive-behaviour therapy (CBT) can help you challenge your unhelpful thoughts. Download our free booklet to find out more about CBT.